Dating why bother

But the only thing he cares about is his body.

He might as well date himself. No one needs that kind of crap in their life, especially long distance. She is the author of Somewhere On A Highway , a poetry collection on self-discovery, growth, love, loss and the challenges of becoming. The cover and theme for my newest book was inspired by the concept of kintsugi.

All that is dark or cracked within us has the capacity to be fixed, to be filled with light. We are never broken.

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We are always becoming. Nothing terrifies me more than being so close to someone and then watching them become a stranger again. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. As you yourself said, in another thread: If you don't want to date us, then don't date us.

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That is the logical course of action, not demanding the other person convince you. Originally Posted by Caius Ballad. If love is chemical reactions in your brain I'd say infatuation is but love is more complex than that, though can be marked by actual physiological and chemical reactions in our bodies and brains , then it DOES exist. It even has physical form in that case.

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At any rate, I'm married, so certainly no one should date me at the moment. And I'd certainly never 'make a case' for myself.

That seems an illogical thing to do. What logical reasons do you have why someone should date you?

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And why can't love be logical? Many people wish for love to defy logic and sweep them away male and female but some people like their love logical.

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That seems a choice to me. Men need to stop trying to get women to logically explain anything when it comes to dating and in that same sense women need to stop try to get men to feel things that are not there. Men and women have different approaches things would be better when people finally accept it. Originally Posted by bean1. OP - why, then, is dating you better than hiring a male escort?

You can't explain logic with logic. Irrational outcomes can be rational too. I for one am glad for the women around you that you see 'no reason to bother dating them'. All times are GMT The time now is 1: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.